Of course its a boy problem!! please help!! i want to know if what i did was right?

if you cant choose between the two boys then you shouldnt be with either one. You shouldnt stay in a relationship unless you see a future with that person and obviously if you almost ped up "ollie" for "ben" then I dont think he was all that great to begin with. I think you made the right decision, you should be the only girl your boy wants not a fall back.