How to get friends with a girl, who wont let you anywhere near her life..?

Some ppl you just have to be there when ever they may need you and thats all you can do. Consider yourself a friend to her and don't push her about it. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make them drink, they have to figure that out on their own... same idea, just let her figure out you are different.. by not like pushing the issue